It's hot here!
It's that time of the year where you are just dragging and sweating and can hardly make it through the day without a nap (or at least the thought of a nap...or a hundred thoughts of a nap!)
But, I'm homeschooling my children, and that means that hot or cold, tired or not, I still have to push through and get it done...or at least get some of it done...or maybe just get half of it done? Because honestly, there are about 100 other things I have to do, too!
Really though, I had a wake up call this week. We are studying the Civil War for history, and my normally very excited children weren't so enthusiastic. What was wrong? Truth be told, it was me!
I was tired, I hadn't spent nearly enough time lesson prepping, figuring that it would all just "fall into place." I had delusions of us getting online and finding all this stuff and making big projects and everyone loving it.
The catch?
I didn't really plan any of it. I just figured their natural enthusiasm would guide us. But, where was my enthusiasm?
Maybe it's not this way in your house, maybe this unschooling or delight directed approach would work for you, but in my house, if we're hot and grumpy and tired, the bare minimum gets done. We did our Bible, Reading, Writing, Arithmetic, and we even had a Science lesson on steam engines and plenty of History read alouds this week (done on Mommy's bed, under the AC of course)...but, we never did get a start on those projects, we never did get online and watch those videos and see all those neat ideas. And truly, isn't that one of the final steps in the learning process? You can motivate kids and teach them an idea, but then it will leave their mind if there isn't a practical application of it followed by a review. Those practical applications are the retellings and drawings that little kids can do, the projects they can make, the videos they can watch and then you talk with them about what you've seen and whose perspective it was from.
I started to really think about this on Thursday and Friday and realized....my kids are the KIDS. They don't know about all that cool stuff out there, they literally don't know what they're missing. How can they ask to watch those videos, do those cool projects, hear those audio dramas if they don't even know they exist? That is why I am the teacher, to direct and motivate them, to show them what is available. Then, if they latch onto something, and love it, we can take a tangent, we can go there and stay put for a bit longer, but, if I don't plan it, if I don't pull together the resources and have a well thought out idea of how things are going to go, we'll never get anywhere.
So, last night, I told Indy, "I need some planning time tomorrow morning. About 2 hours. Would that work?" He of course said yes! (Thank you, Honey!)
This morning, after breakfast, I got right to it. I pulled up my Tapestry links, My Audio School, Have Fun with History video site, my Homeschool in the Woods Time Travelers Civil War CD, a pile of books, and my 2 week school calendar and got right to work mapping it all out. I tried to take into account our busier days and a 2 day break that is coming up for mid-term at HOPAC. It all fell together very nicely.
Part of my pile of History books (yes, there are more) and my 2 week schedule for Tapestry. Krypto does his own reading and writing in the morning, while I'm doing Language Arts with Gwangi. You can see his assignments in the top set of boxes. We do History together in the afternoon each day. Those are the ideas, readings, and links that are listed in the bottom section.
Now, I've got a plan.
Does any plan survive "first contact with the enemy?" (an old military joke) NO! Life will happen, I still have a sick Sissi; but, for now, I have ideas written down, links saved on my computer and pictures, maps, and projects are printed and ready to go for Monday. I feel refreshed, I feel motivated, I'm ready to put some practical learning time into covering a very intense time in US History.
Has this ever happened to you before...you have great "pie in the sky" plans and then they just don't come to fruition and you feel like you've failed, like you aren't doing the best that you can? What have you done when you've realized that school isn't "fun" anymore?