I can hardly believe that a week has gone by since I did my last post! Seems like it is always something, doesn't it? A few thoughts and lessons learned this week ;)...
Number One, don't over-commit, HAH! Isn't that so much easier said than done? Don't they "say" that if you want something done, ask the busy person? We had 3 events this past Saturday alone, and I just KNEW going in that it was too much; but, I have such a hard time saying "no"...Indy even sings the song to me from Oklahoma! "I'm just a girl who can't say no"...I always laugh; but, it is so true. Well, I'll be honest, at one point I lost my temper and actually cried...not at anyone in the family or quite frankly at anyone in particular...it was the situation; but, I think I did scare Sissi with my tears :( . I was tired, had been out in the sun too long and had spent WAY too long in traffic at the USAFA football game. I kept trying to leave base (we had left the three boys at the game) and "all roads led to the stadium"...odd, since I had just come from there, two times....ahhhh....I'm not kidding, the traffic plan was horrendous, you would sit for 30 minutes or so in a line, think you would be able to turn to leave the base, and then would be directed to park in yet another of the stadium lots. I kept trying to explain that I wanted to leave base, not see the rest of the football game...really, I'm not kidding... They would tell me, "ok ma'am, but you have to go this way to leave". Hmmm, really, I've lived here for about a 1/3 or more of my life, I know how to leave base and THIS isn't it!!!! Breathe, right? I tried to think that...I confessed later to Indy what happened and he said I need to get used to inefficiency....I might be the most organized executive officer he's ever seen; but, most of the third world IS NOT! I really do need to keep that in mind....
Number Two, get enough rest! I can hear so many of you laughing at this one too. I put a post on my FB page about this, too. Here it is, for those of you that didn't catch it the first time...
http://raisinghomemakers.com/2010/im-so-tired/
So, I'm trying on this one...but it is so hard. I find it difficult to get a lot of my organizational stuff for school, and just life in general, done during the day. I seem to get a second wind after the children go to bed and then am tempted to stay up until 11 or 12. Then when 6:15/6:30 comes around the next morning, I can sometimes push through and get up; but, more often than not, I push the snooze and go back to sleep and then I'm trying to fit in a shower and breakfast amidst the children's needs. School gets started late (as in, I feel rushed to get it done so we can still go to the Y or the library) and I know I'm just setting myself up for a melt down...let me clarify, this is MY melt down, not one of the kid's ;). Right now, the three kiddos are playing outside, I've had to go and intervene a few times; but, for the most part, they are playing well together...I know it's getting easier; but, then why am I so selfish with my time? Why can't I sacrifice a few things that I want to do and just GO TO BED???? Still working on this one!
So, an update on how things are going with our application - we're waiting for several of our references to be turned in and we're starting our medical reviews tonight! There's also a few other questions that I thought I might answer...
--What will you be doing there?
Well, there is the obvious teaching that will happen, both Indy teaching History and I will be teaching our own children. There is also mentoring and mission projects with the boarding children. About a 1/3 of the children are MKs and so their parents may be far away, some of the staff can take the place of their parents and help the children to develop a heart for local missions by getting involved in the orphanages, churches, and street work that is ongoing there.
--Where will you go to church?
There is a local AG church in town, I'm sure we'll start there and see what the Lord would have us do.
--What is Tanzania like?
Wow, where to begin, I might suggest you do a Google search and consult a map to add to what I'm saying here...first, look on the East side of Africa and down, just below the equator and NW of Madagascar. The main city of Dar es Salaam (it is not the capitol though, Dodoma is the capitol city and is inland) is on the coast and by all accounts is quite beautiful. Temps year round are in the 80s and being on the coast, there is a breeze, most of the time. They speak English and Swahili. There are Christians and Muslims there, more Muslims are in the city than are in the rural areas. There is also a large group of Animists. Some of the famous attractions that people go to Tanzania for are Mt. Kilimanjaro (tallest mountain in Africa), the Serengeti National Park (part of the Great Rift Valley), Lakes Victoria (source of the Nile River) and Tanganyika (world's longest lake and also the 2nd deepest and 2nd largest freshwater lake), and the island of Zanzibar which is just off the coast.
Well, that is enough for today, I need to play with the kids and then get started on dinner...I hope this has helped you, whether it was that you learned more about me or gained some new information about Africa. I know it was good for me to get my "lessons" off my chest, now to get them firmly in my head and heart...then I'll be good!